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Distinguishing Between Poor/Dysfunctional Parenting and Child Emotional Maltreatment - Appendix 1 - Canada.ca

Distinguishing Between Poor/Dysfunctional Parenting and Child Emotional Maltreatment - Appendix 1

Appendix 1

Continuum of Parental Emotional Sensitivity and Expression

MOST POSITIVE Bi-directional Arrow MOST NEGATIVE
Positive, Healthy Parenting Style Poor/Dysfunctional Emotionally Abusive/Neglectful
Stimulation and Emotional Expressions
  • provides a variety of sensory stimulation and positive emotional expressions
  • expresses joy at child's effort and accomplishments
  • shows rigid emotional expression and inflexibility in responding to child
  • seems unconcerned with child's developmental/ psychological needs
  • expresses conditional love and ambivalent feelings towards child
  • shows little or no sensitivity to child's needs
Interactions
  • engages in competent, child centered interactions to encourage development
  • friendly, positive interactions that encourage independent exploration
  • often insensitive to child's needs; unfriendly
  • poor balance between child independence and dependence on parent
  • emotionally or physically rejects child's attention
  • takes advantage of child's dependency status through coercion, threats, or bribes
Consistency and Predictability
  • demonstrates consistency and predictability to promote their relationship
  • often responds unpredictably, sometimes with emotional discharge
  • responds unpredictably, accompanied by emotional discharge
Rules and limits
  • makes rules for safety and health
  • appropriate safeguards for child's age
• Unclear or inconsistent rules for safety and health
  • Sporadic, capricious
  • exploits or corrupts for parent's benefit
Disciplinary practices
  • occasionally scolds, criticizes, interrupts child activity
  • teaches child through behavioural rather than psychological control methods
  • frequently uses coercive methods and minimizes child's competence
  • uses psychologically controlling methods that confuse, upset child
  • uses cruel and harsh control methods that frighten child
  • violates minimal community standards on occasion
Emotional delivery and tone
  • uses emotional delivery and tone that are firm but not frightening
  • uses verbal and non verbal pressure, often to achieve unrealistic expectations
  • frightening, threatening, denigrating, insulting

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